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Womens Body Language
Knowing how to use attractive mens body language and how to read womens body language can do wonders for your dating life. You can eliminate a lot of failure with women if you'll learn how to read womens body language. You’ve probably heard it said that 90% of communication between humans is with body language and only about 10% with words. You know this is true if you’ve ever approached a woman and been super nervous and stood too close to her or maybe looked at the ground the whole time. You know what happened. First let me say that the easiest way to eliminate 90% of approach anxiety is to approach instantly when you see someone your interested in. If you do there just isn’t time for all those nervous feelings to mess with your head. The first thing you need to know about womens body language is that with a woman, you will usually need to start the body language interaction. Women aren't like guys in that they don't look around for the hottest guy they can see and start having these dirty thoughts about him. Eye Contact When you make eye contact with a woman and then look away real quick, you communicate to her that you're a wimp. On the other hand, when you hold eye contact until she looks away, she will remember. Now, when she breaks eye contact with you, if she looks at the ground and then you catch her looking your way again and she does the same thing, that is a huge indicator that she's interested. At this point don't hesitate in walking over and talking to her. How To Know If Shes Into You The biggest thing you need to know about womens body language is that if she is talking to you and not running away or ignoring you, it's on. That's all you need to know. There is no point in trying to learn what a single lick of the lips or a hair flip means. As far as how to read body language, what I explained above as far as the eye contact thing is a good way to know if a woman is open to being approached, and then from there if she stays in conversation with you, it's on. It's that simple.
Mens Body Language
Okay, so let’s talk about mens body language and how to use attractive mens body language. When you’re just walking around, you want to keep your head up and level. Don’t walk around with your chin up or looking at the ground; keep it level. The biggest thing is to remember to keep your shoulders back and your chest out. Lift Your Chest Just think of trying to lift your chest to the sky and everything else will do what it’s supposed to. When you’re sitting down, you don’t want to completely slouch but you also don’t want to be completely rigid. Appear Comfortable The whole point with mens body language is to appear comfortable. That’s the key. So when sitting you should lean back a little, and take up space. When it comes to actually talking to women, lean back. That pretty much sums it up; it’s the most important thing you can do. When you’re talking to her, lean back. When you’re sitting next to her, lean away from her. The other thing I like to do when standing and talking to someone is to stand sideways to them. How To Stand Standing facing someone is confrontational, and standing sideways to them makes it feel much more personal and comfortable. Oh, one more thing; when eating with a girl, you should sit next to them, never across from them. I don’t think there’s a right or wrong with this; its for the same reason as when I’m standing; I just think its more comfortable for both people.
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